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[bubosquared]

Is something a waste of time simply because it didn't last forever?

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[fayemeadows.livejournal.com]

No. Any experience that affects you is worthy of whatever time it existed.

[bubosquared.livejournal.com]

's what I think, too. Especially about relationships and friendships. Apparently, not everyone does. :/

(Don't mind me, I'm in a funk. Must go home anc watch SDBs and get self out of said funk.)

(Hate work!)

[rsadelle]

Nothing lasts forever.

[coneyislandbaby]

Absolutely not. Some of the things that have meant the most to me are things that didn't last forever.

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[bubosquared.livejournal.com]

I know. And I don't usually let the bad times overshadow the good memories, but sometimes it's hard ...

[asilvahalo.livejournal.com]

I'm currently in a relationship with someone who is graduating in three weeks and moving to Boston to attend grad school. In all likelihood, the relationship will end then, but I don't really think the relationship is a waste of time because it really is a good experience for me. So no. Things that don't last forever are not wastes of time. They're learning experiences, growing experiences, and things that make us happy at the time. :)

[bubosquared.livejournal.com]

They're learning experiences, growing experiences, and things that make us happy at the time. :)

I find it hard to remember that when a former friend seems to think that because a friendship ended (more or less badly), that means said friendship (including the good times) was a waste of time. :/

[asilvahalo.livejournal.com]

You could always kill and eat him/her. =)

[natlet]

*jumps on you and cuddles you*

No.
But it sounds like you know this already and are just looking for affirmation.
*hugs*

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[bubosquared.livejournal.com]

Thanks. *hugcuddle* :)

And yeah, mostly. I'm just feeling kind of insecure right now.