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Sofie 'Melle' Werkers ([personal profile] bubosquared) wrote2001-04-30 03:47 am

A little message for someone who knows who she is ...

[And no, this is not at all related to the previous entry. Honest.]

If you think we went through all that trouble to hurt others, think again. We are and were just stating what we feel and think. That's called a discussion.

If we're misunderstanding you, try finding a better way to bring your point across, then. That's what we keep doing. Again, that's called a discussion.

If you're losing sleep over this, maybe you should follow the advice that one of your friends gave us, and get over it.

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[personal profile] rsadelle 2001-04-29 06:54 pm (UTC)(link)
"If you think we went through all that trouble to hurt others, think again."

And in a related point, it's not like all of this only hurt other people. We were very hurt by things that happened as well. I think that's gotten lost in translation.

Since this post was probably ment for me...

(Anonymous) 2001-04-30 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Although I don't know that for sure. I'm sorry that you were hurt Ruth. But you left as you did taking your toys and leaving the sandbox. You had very strong opinions about, the list and other things related to it. You have said yourself at the time you felt you could not talk about it which was fine. You keep saying things get lost...I don't agree. In any argument you can find the truth somewhere down the middle.

Just for a note Ruth. I did not say you couldn't express your opinions. I just gave mine as I saw it expressing my pov. I did not attack you personally. That is what you claim you discussions are about right? Yet when I give my opinion...people call me stupid, and say I don't express myself well enough for them to take my opinions? Nice. So why even bother?
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Re: Since this post was probably ment for me...

[personal profile] rsadelle 2001-05-01 09:44 am (UTC)(link)
I did feel like some of my points got lost and ignored. I'm sure you feel the same way about some of the points you made.

I can't control what other people say about you. I tried to take what you said seriously and, as far as I'm concerned, I responded to it seriously.