I can deal with, "This makes me uncomfortable because I don't really understand it, but I love you." Familiarity breeds greater tolerance over time. On the other hand, "The very thought of you holding hands with another woman makes me retch into my shoes, but I still love you," yeah. Sure you do. (I'm fortunate in that the absolute worst responses I've gotten in my own immediate family have been the former and not the latter.)
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